There’s so much I can say about my Dad, Jim Hamby, but I don’t think I could do it justice if I sat here and typed all day long. In a time when such a large portion of pastors drop out of the ministry due to stress and burnout, my Dad persevered no matter how many crazy church members came against him, no matter how bad the finances looked, no matter how much the devil was attacking him and his family. He was faithful because he was called and he never forgot that calling. Even when his kidneys were failing him and he couldn’t see out of 1 eye and his feet were so swelled that he could barely get shoes on, he preached his heart out and cared for his church people like they were family. He was a man of God…a man of integrity, honesty, compassion and grace.
But, he was so much more than that to me. He was my Dad. He was the ultimate example of what a provider should be. When we lived on a shoe string budget and we barely had food, we always had everything that we needed and more…even if it meant him having to work 2 or 3 other jobs while pastoring full time. When I became a teenager and rebelled against everything and everyone, my Dad never made me feel bad or like a failure. He was just there for me. When I would stagger in at 4 am, drunk as a skunk, he would be sitting there on the porch, waiting for me. He didn’t yell at me or look at me with a disappointed look…he just got up, opened the door and put his arm around me as we went inside. When I got kicked out of Lee College twice for drugs, he came down and got me and took me home, making sure he stopped at my favorite restaurant on the way home.
Jim Hamby was a living example of how a man should be. A devoted husband, a caring and loving father and a child of God who was madly in love with Jesus. Dad, we’ll miss you horribly but we are all so happy that you are with your savior now and we’ll see you soon!

4 Comments
January 28, 2010 at 5:08 am
Troy,
I don’t know you except by name. But let me take this time to express my personal condolences to your family in the recent loss of your father. I certainly will keep your family in prayer. Also, I would like recommend a book for you and the family to read that will help with the grieving process. It is “Experiencing Grief” by Dr. H. Norman Wright. I believe it would be beneficial for your mother as well.
February 4, 2010 at 6:16 pm
troy you are so right your dad my brother was a man that did not give up no matter how he feld…and when i would ask how he felt he would alway say i am getting better and feeling fine…even though i knew he was in pain…i loved by brother very much and will miss him greatly….becky hamby metzgar
February 8, 2010 at 5:11 pm
Troy, you posted a loving and incredible tribute to your father. What a man of God and just as important what a man of faith, perseverance and LOVE. I’m especially moved by how he loved you even when you were away from God.
Praying God’s grace and presence comforts you and family during this difficult time. Our God is a God who is more than enough!! God bless you and family. We look forward to you speaking for Our Father’s Heart on Feb. 19th.
February 12, 2010 at 4:23 pm
Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of HIS saints…and your dad certainly qualified.